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Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Why u cry?

A little boy asked his mother. "Why are you crying?"

"Because i'm a woman," she told him.

"I don't understand," he said. His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will."

Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"

"All women cry for no reason," was all his dad could say.

The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry.

Finally he put in a call to GOD. When GOD got on the phone, he asked,

"GOD, why do women cry so easily?"

"GOD said, "When i made the woman she had to be special.

I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, 

yet gentle enough to give comfort.

I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times 

comes from her children.

I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up,

and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.

I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances,

even when her child has hurt her very badly.

I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from 

his rib to protect his heart.

I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband and never hurts his wife, but

sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unflatteringly ."

And finally, i gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed."

"You see my son," said GOD, "the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears,

the figure that she carries, or the way combs her hair.

The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place 

where  love resides."

I dont want to cry... I want to smile always...


  1. Need a shoulder to cry on?

    Mehh...! Meh...!

    Btw, I pun nangis hari ini, pastu rasa lega dan boleh senyummmm...

  2. kadang2 perlu menangis..untuk melegakan perasaan.

    keep smiling :)

  3. kadang2 menangis perlu sbb ia dpt melegakan perasaan ketika itu..

    apa khabar kak yan?

  4. Teras puas lepas nangis....sobbbb....sobbbb

  5. Yan... terasa syahdu.. bergenang airmata dikelopak mata ni...sob sob sob...

  6. menangis itu satu terapi...senyum itu satusedekah...:-)

  7. Dear Yan....but cry sometimes do us women least by crying releases our stressfulness and things that cannot be shared except with Allah strong Yan! As life as a woman is full of sacrifices that only Allah SWT n we, woman knows! It's hard sometimes.....but Allah is always there for us!!!

    With love,
    Kak ani

  8. "Hai kak yan,pa khabar...lama tk 'jumpa'....~kdg2 menangis buatkan kita lega..."

  9. Bila rasa letih sangat (fizikal & mental)...sure menangis sbb lepas nangis rasa lega...rasa cam dpt spirit baru...

  10. akak sedih nyerrr...saya kalau sedih2 nie suka makan coklat..

  11. AA,

    sumtimes tak boleh nak explain apa yg ada dlm hati kita kann.. i jenis yg suka simpan but never show my sadness.

    yesss i need a shoulder to cry on.

  12. betul tu kak kasihredha.. u can see my smile but at the same time u never know how sad i m..

    tapi kakkk..hari ni saya happyyyy.. dapat sesuatu dari orang di Cheras..heee TQ dearr..MUAHHHHH...

  13. Baik jemarisuri...

    memang menangis itu macam terapi.. Tapi hati lara, siapa tau kannn..

  14. Kak Anie..

    saja nak meluahkan rasa hati yang sedang gundah kak..kakak jangan sedih2 ye...

  15. Betul tu Dil..Always smile even u r hurt...

  16. TQ kak ani...

    sumthing yang we cant share with others. Only certain person. I jenis org yang susah u nak tgk i sedih...

    I always be strong kak..TQ dear..

  17. Hati rasa ta keruan lah Pia lately..

    Hope getting ok..INSYALLAH

  18. Azi,

    i m not that type of person.. I will cry bila dah tak boleh tertanggung yang disimpan dalam hati..

  19. BSB,

    ye dear..rasa sedih dan bermacam perasaan bercampur baur..hope getting ok..

  20. emm...kak yan ok ke..
    belakang tu sakit balik ke?
    tapi itulah keistimewaan wanita
    mampu menahan apa jua cabaran :)

  21. ye ati..sometimes bila dia mai, rasa hopeless, helpless, ok lahh

  22. kak yan... be strong!!! sweet in black sometimes.. hiks.